What shows up
Three things, every time
What their age is really about
The developmental thing your grandchild is quietly working on right now, in plain language.
Words for the hard part
Something to actually say the next time a conversation with your own kids gets tight.
One small, specific idea
Not a project. A thing you could do this week that a grandchild would remember.
Loving your grandchildren comes naturally. Knowing exactly how to show up for them at every age does not.
That is most of what this letter is about. Not grandparenting in the abstract, but the particular, ordinary moments that turn out to be the ones a child keeps.